Hilda, I offer this to you as a friend: you need to get a better line of defense that doesn't rely on fairness. It is a better argument and a better guilt trip.

[Hilda did...did you just flick his tits? Really?

Give him a minute to look baffled about that. It means his response to the question will look baffled too, but little problems.]

Feeling ready versus feeling that there's something to act on are two different things. So no, there's not. And if there were, maybe I would feel less prepared than I hypothetically do.